Did you ever have a day that started out pretty good then about half way through it things started going down hill. You finally get some control over the slide only to have 1 person's childish actions throw you back on the slide? I do not know about you , but I really hate it when people accuse me of things I did not do or say I am upset or mad when I am not. You say I am mad when I am not and I will be mad in less then 2 seconds.
I really wish people would stop trying to read into things. They usually assume things that are not even close to being true. Would it not be easier to just ask someone why they are quiet instead of assuming they are mad. This is the internet and there are as many reasons for someone not to be responding as fast as you think they should as there are people on the net.
I am a very literal person, so never ever assume I meant something I did not directly say, because you will most often be wrong. I say what I mean in the words I mean them in there is never anything written ( between the lines) that is not how my brain works.
I had all I could do to keep from going off on someone last night who threw a hissy fit at something they assumed instead of just asking me.
Another thing that irritates me is people why are paranoid and think everyone is against them. That is ironic as I myself have been know to fall into the paranoia trap myself from time to time, so I should over look it in others. Thing is I NEVER over look things that irritate me. I may forgive them fast but I do not over look them.
Another thing I hate is when I lock horns with someone who is just as suborn as myself. It makes it hard to solve a dispute when that happens, and it is even harder when someone says something that cuts like a knife and does not feel they did anything wrong even though they may make the other person cry.
I said something 2 years ago I wish I never said. I felt backed into a corner and I came out swinging and when I get like that I will use what ever I have to make the other person leave me alone. Unfortunately this time it worked too well. That person who I once called a good friend has not spoken to me in 2 years, and there is nothing I can do about it as they have cut all contacts with me.
It never ceases to amaze me how when some people hurt someone else the one doing the hurting hurts just as bad as the one they hurt. But others can hurt someone and not give it a second thought. Makes me wonder if they really think they did nothing wrong or it they have no continuance to help them see they should not have said what they did.
