Have you ever noticed when people are lonely it sometimes makes them desperate? There was someone in my life for many years I loved like a son. In the beginning he was awesome but in the past couple years something has happened to his personality. He has became very lonely and it is making him desperate to find love. He has taking to e-stalking girls on the net, and lying about things in his life to try to make himself seem more interesting and exciting. Desperation is a funny thing it will wipe out all common sense. I am not just saying this to be judgmental. I myself went through a desperate stage about a decade ago and it nearly killed me literally. My friend is making a mess of his life and he does not see it. My problem is he is trying to take those of us that were still his friends down with him, and in doing so losing the few real friends he still had.
I do not appreciate people assuming things about me I never have. He was apparently put on ignore by someone in a pool room tonight and without even asking me he assumed the id was mine and that I had put him on ignore. No one screams at me and gets away with it so I yelled back at him and then hung up on him. A few minutes ago he accused me of having someone we both know doss his computer because it is not working right. The ironic thing is not only did I not do that, but the person he was talking about has not even been on line for nearly a week and I am starting to worry about him. I realllllllllllly hate being accused of things I did not do.
I asked my friend what kind of drug he took to make him act like he has been he said none. I am having trouble believing him. I have been told for the past 3 days he has been hanging around a pool room making an ass of himself in the lobby. He would never have done that a few years ago. I was told his g/f dumped him for another guy. Well is it any wonder if he has been acting like that with her, but there is one thing to remember. It may be popular to blame someone else when you lose your g/f or b/f but the bottom line is NO GUY OR GIRL WILL EVER LEAVE A GUY OR GIRL THEY DO NOT WANT TO LEAVE. When the one you think you love leaves you for someone else you really need to take a long hard look at yourself to see what you did that made this other person more desirable to them.
What kills me though is how many truly unfulfilled people their is on the net. People that are all wrapped up in other peoples business when they were not asked to be. I used to be sort of like that ,but I have lately became interested in old hobbies like drawing and painting. I spend more time doing these hobbies and less time on the net. A lot of people have nothing better to do with their lives then to try to cause trouble for people they claim to be their friends. These are not real friends and should be discarded as soon as possible.
