As I sit here with my eyes itching and my head throbbing I feel the need to blog. What should have been a quiet relaxing day turned into something quite different. Have you ever had a friend that started taking on the characteristics of someone else in your life. It is not that the original person is a bad person it is just that you do not need 2 of the same kind of person. Everyone should be and individual each to their own personality and mannerisms. People are not like salt and pepper shakers. Many sizes and shapes but all the same in that they are all salt and pepper shakers. I like all my friends to be different individuals all with their own shinny parts and their own scratches and cracks. If people were to be mass produced we would all look alike. God made us all look different so that we would all be individuals, so why would or for that matter should a person try to be just like another? What is making me crazy is someone very special to me is starting to take on the personality traits of another friend of ours, and if it does not stop I fear it may cause damage to our relationship. I only need 1 of each of my friends I do not need any clones.
I fear if this pattern continues that I will become more discontent with it and as a result become more grouchy and hard to get along with. I do not know what to do about this. I have also noticed that when guys get together they tend to do what the other guys are doing even if it may not be their normal behavior or the best idea. I think there may come a time when I will have to step in and point this out to them. I am now going to take my headache and leave the net for the night may you all have a good evening.
